If you are experiencing emotional stress due to the breakup with your ex boyfriend, imagine how the stress builds up when you discover that your ex boyfriend is dating another girl. What is immediately channeled through your mind is how to get him back fast.

However, you should not rush things. You have the advantage in the situation here because of the memories that you and your ex have together and the experiences that both of you went through. The new girl has no experiences with your ex boyfriend just yet so it is your advantage to use the experiences you both shared with your ex.

Now think about that history, those good times with your ex boyfriend. How good were they really, because clearly something went terribly wrong. With time we often slide on the old rose colored spectacles. So be sure that your memories are grounded in reality and not fantasy.

Now that you have thought of the memories and that has made you think twice to get your ex boyfriend back, you can sought the help of your friends to tell you what they think. Friends do care about you so their opinions are unbiased. Before making any actions, you must balance everything to make a reasonable decision. To get him back or just to let him go.

While strolling down memory lane, you find yourself in a predicament wherein it was your attitude that brought the relationship down. In that case, you need to change your behavior. It is completely useless if you get back together with your ex boyfriend when the attitude he left you for is still there when both of you reconcile. So you need to at least change that attitude.

If you really want to get back with him then you should call him or make any other communication with him. Ask him to meet you in a place that is neutral. Just be calm when asking him. Do not frighten him by giving a hint of something big to come his way.

When the time comes when the both of you meet, talk to him about the relationship both of you had and your intent in saving the relationship. Tell him you have already sorted the things to make it work and that you still have deep feelings for him.

Give him room to elaborate his side of the story. This is a relationship and both of you must agree to some things to make it work. If you don’t hear what you want to hear at least listen them out. Do not get emotional since it will lead to problems later on. So it would be best if you give him some time and let him make his decisions. Wait for his call do not rush him. All you have to do now is wait.